So the reason a person develops DID is because of the horrible unrelenting physical/sexual/emotional abuse a small child has to endure. The child mind cannot take it, so many children develop alters to take the abuse for them...it is a "Defense Mechanism" to help protect the child.
It is not a mental illness...it is not curable...
Since I have come out about my DID, a lot of people think it is okay for them to talk about their abuse, or someone else's abuse to me...
THAT IS NOT ACCEPTABLE...THAT IS A TRIGGER FOR ME... I try so hard to put my past in the past, but when people insists on talking to me about abuse, it stirs up my alters and I become very anxious,...
Please do not talk about those things to me...it is cruel.
If you were in the company of a person who is struggling to not drink alcohol, struggling to learn a new way of life without alcohol, you would certainly not drink in front of them, or offer them a drink, or talk in detail about alcohol and how it helps you or whatever...that is cruel and in no way helps the alcoholic...it triggers them! Same difference with DID..NEVER TALK ABOUT ABUSE TO A DID PERSON! AGAIN TRIGGERS...
Please learn about DID...or at the very least watch our videos.
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